Peace

Peace comes in many forms, but at the end of the day is all about empathy and true reconciliation. Oftentimes when people fail to reach peace, they hold on to do values and never make any sacrifice their own gains. However, if everyone just thinks about himself or herself, there will be no bond among us.

The first step to reach peace is to find out and understand what the other party wants, and what we can offer to meet their expectation. During the process, once the other parties demands are being listened to and understood, our expectation can also be listen to an understood and thus fulfilled.

People are often trapped in the fallacy that their demands have to be fulfilled first so that they have the pleasure and leisure to do the same to the other party. This is the very reason why communication sales. If everyone only wants others to listen to us, how can communication be achieved, let alone peace?

The only way to break the fallacy is to realize one thing: in order to get, we have to give first. This value applies to everything in our life.

To listen to.

To understand.

To give.

To love.

To take the initiative.

To make peace.